Two Weeks In and Easter Joy
Celebrating New Beginnings and Family Blessings
As we mark the end of our second week with our son, amidst the whirlwind of adjusting to new sleeping schedules and deciphering his needs, one thing remains abundantly clear—it’s been the most incredible journey for both of us. While far from perfect and rife with learning curves, this chapter is one we’re eager to cherish for a lifetime.
One aspect we’ve swiftly tackled is the sleeping routine. Recognizing the unique dynamics between breast feeding and bottle feeding, we’ve found our rhythm by prioritizing rest for the primary caregiver. For us, this means carving out daytime hours for mom to recharge, while I take the night shift, ensuring she gets as much rest as possible. Understanding that every partnership is unique, it’s essential to brainstorm strategies that suit your own dynamic.
Another vital lesson learned is the importance of maintaining a personal focus beyond the baby. Amidst the joy and demands of parenthood, nurturing a creative or meditative outlet has become our lifeline. Whether it’s through prayer, artistic expression, or moments of quiet reflection, having something to divert our attention from exhaustion and baby-centric concerns has proven invaluable. As our doctors wisely advised, it’s about adaptation without losing sight of our individual identities and passions.
Ensuring that we prioritize our own well-being will prove invaluable in the journey of raising our child.
Reading for the week:
The reading for this week is particularly meaningful to me as it was recommended by
, whose insightful suggestion has enriched my journey thus far. I want to express my heartfelt gratitude for introducing me to the profound work, 'Kith: The Riddle of the Childscape' by Jay Griffiths. Thank you for this remarkable recommendation, which has deepened my understanding of parenthood and childhood in profound ways.
Amazon link to Kith: The Riddle of the Childscape by Jay Griffiths
“Kith,” authored by British writer Jay Griffiths, proved to be a rewarding but somewhat elusive find in America. While available on Amazon, it primarily appears as a resale item, prompting readers to delve into the reviews before making a purchase.
Griffiths’ prose takes on a poetic quality as it delves into the contrasting approaches to child-rearing between Western societies and more indigenous cultures. Without divulging too many details, I aim to explore this thought-provoking narrative in depth in future discussions.
It’s important to note that “Kith” presents a formidable challenge to process, not due to language barriers but rather the sheer volume of information condensed within its pages. Personally, I found myself digesting just a few pages at a time, often needing a significant pause for reflection. Nevertheless, this book stands as a profoundly stimulating must-read for new parents.
Bonus for you:
This week’s bonus resources hold significant value in aiding me in caring for our son. Like many parents, navigating newborn sleep patterns can be quite challenging. I stumbled upon a Reddit article that offered invaluable insights and practical tips to help our son sleep better. It’s not just about ensuring the room isn’t too cold; babies can also become uncomfortably warm, so it’s important to consider the opposite as well. You can find the article here. Additionally, congestion is inevitable for children. Since babies primarily breathe through their nose, having a reliable nasal aspirator is an essential tool that should not be underestimated. A list of Amazon items can be found here. As with anything, make sure to consult your child’s pediatrician as well for advice before moving forward just to make sure the item is safe for your child. All children are different and need different things.
Question of the Week:
What strategies are you employing to help your child sleep? Additionally, do you have any advice on cleaning young children’s airways? Feel free to reply here or share your insights on my website here, as any guidance is greatly appreciated.
